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Possible Issues
- You are too busy to find the time to meet a partner
- Your work demands a great deal of your time- You are always rushing around
The Cause
If we are too busy with other aspects of our life, it suggests that we are not placing a very high priority on finding a partner. This may be because we are resistant in some way to joining our life with another person.
A desire to remain independent may indicate an unconscious fear of entering into a partnership because of its potential for raising insecurities and painful emotions that we have buried in the past. It is our unconscious fear of raising these old feelings that keeps us busy and away from the intimacy that characterises a relationship.
The Way Through

If you are too busy to find a partner, ask yourself why you might have engineered this hectic lifestyle. Are you avoiding the potential for intimacy because of the emotional turmoil that this might entail?
Try to simplify your life by dropping those things that act as distractions. Focus on what you really want from life and prioritise. Work to understand and heal any fears around losing your independence.
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