Here are three things you can do to introduce some spice back into your relationship and your life:
1. The key to bring more excitement and passion into your relationship is to go back to the beginning, to the time you feel in love (assuming you did that!). At this point both of your hearts were open - so the challenge is to re-open them again.
2. You will need to start taking some emotional risks (you have both stopped doing this) and this means becoming more honest with each other. There are issues that you have both deliberately avoided and it is in defending these that you have inadvertently closed down your hearts.
3. Do something romantic together. Go away somewhere that you would both love and do something different. Spoil yourselves a bit and really appreciate each other. If you can break out of your old emotional habits you will fall back in love again and then it will be another honeymoon all over again!
Note: The Dead Zone can seem impossible to escape but it is in fact the gateway to the next and much more fulfiling relationship stage - Partnership and True Love.