Possible Issues

- You are bored with your relationship and your partner

- Life has lost its excitement and zest

- You long for those feelings of romance and love that your experienced when you first met your partner

The Cause

Many of us reach a point where we have become bored with our relationship and life and wonder if that is all there is. There is a temptation to blame this sense of deadness on the people around us or the lack of excitement in a job. We may begin to introduce more excitement through adventure sports, new jobs or even an affair.

None of this works in the long run because the boredom has come from within. This has crept up on us because at some point we made an unconscious decision to disconnect from the people around us, usually to avoid dealing with our emotional insecurities and fears. This takes away the critical joining and connection that gives vitality to life. Although we may be protected from feeling the bad stuff we also switch off the good stuff. If we allow the deadness to grow, we risk falling into depression and ill-health.

The Way Through

Any sense of boredom or deadness in your relationship or life is a strong indication that you are ready for the next major step in your psychological evolution. Your independence, and the necessary withdrawal that this entailed, has probably given you a measure of success in terms of money and lifestyle, but this will have been at the expense of a sense of connection.

The time has come for you to reconnect as wholeheartedly as you can with your partner and other people in your life. By opening your heart and feeling all your emotions again, life will immediately become more colourful and exciting. This move into emotional partnership will be the most significant and life enhancing change of your life.

Legal Notice - Medical Advice

All advice in this website is given in good faith and no responsibility can be accepted by the website owners for issues or problems that occur as a consequence of using the website content. If you have any concerns about your psychological health you are advised to contact a doctor other suitably qualified medical/psychiatric practioner.

© P.J.Granger 2007

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