Here are three things you can do to make your life more abundant:
1. Recognise the times you are in a negative or scarce state of mind. You mind is very powerful at creating your experience so re-train it with a plentiful or abundant attitude, and this is what will appear in your life. This is what underlies the positive-thinking approach to life.
2. Be curious as to why you or your partner might have ended up with a belief in scarcity - that there is not enough to go round. Challenge this belief and explore where it might have originated in your life. Heal any insecurities that arose out of incidents of a perceived scarcity of love in your childhood (see my book Lovecoach for more help with this)
3. Start giving with an open heart with no expectation or need of return. In other words give to the people around you simply for the joy of giving. This will automatically open you up to receive life riches - which are always present.