Dating - Never Meet Anyone

Possible Issues

- You just don't seem to meet potential partners.

- You dream about having a relationship but it never happens

- You have had enough of evenings in on your own watching a DVD with a ready-meal and a bottle of wine!

The Cause

The obvious cause of not meeting anybody is that we may not be going out and mixing with potential partners! But perhaps we are subconsciously avoiding the opportunity to meet people because we are not ready, are fearful of the dating process or are reluctant to commit to a partnership. We have become fearful of venturing ourselves.

This resistance may come in the form of distractions that take our minds and hearts off the business of dating and potential romance. Somehow it feels safer to stay in alone and avoid having to take risks in the game of romance.

The Way Through

If you are not meeting potential partners it is important to first ask yourself if, deep down there is any reluctance to taking the risks that are involved in dating and forming a relationship. Do you subconsciously fear that nobody would be interested in you ? Have you been hurt in previous relationships? Does the dating process fill you with dread? These fears can make you turn inwards and withdraw from potential romantic situations.

The trick is to start extending your loving, positive energy and personality out into the world. Visualise that there is a lovely person out there who is just waiting to find you. Start making opportunities to meet people through leisure, sport or social occasions. Get out and just have fun - you don't need to be continually looking for a partner. In fact most people meet their partner when they least expect it!

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© P.J.Granger 2007

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