Possible Issues

- You are single or have been alone for a long time despite wanting to be in a relationship.

-You feel you are unlucky in love and wonder if you will ever meet anybody.

- You are reasonably happy on your own but know that you would prefer to share your life with somebody.

The Cause

If you think about it, amongst the millions of potential partners in the world, there must be someone who would love to share their life with you. If you have not found someone it is probably worth asking yourself why this might be? Could it be that you don't want to lose your independence or perhaps that you do not feel that anybody would be interested in you? If you are alone, there a strong likelihood that part of you wants it that way.

Relationships bring us very close to other people and mean that we will have to deal with any number of issues and insecurities that we may have buried away in our minds. By remaining single and independent we never have to face these issues, but then we lose out on the joy of a loving relationship. If our issues relate to problematic and painful relationships earlier in life, they can prevent us from finding a partner as an adult.

The Way Through

If you have been alone for a long time, begin to ask yourself why you would not want to find a partner or perhaps why you do not feel worthy to be in a relationship.

This much honesty can be uncomfortable at first, but as you become more self-aware you will see that you may have been holding yourself back from loving relationships. Many of the coaching tips found in this site will help you to build self-esteem and natural attractiveness - once you decide wholeheartedly that you want and deserve a partner, then someone will appear in your life.

It is true that relationships can bring up uncomfortable issues and we all need to work at the them, but it is only through relationships that we can discover ourselves, and with the help of a partner, learn to let go of our insecurities.

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All advice in this website is given in good faith and no responsibility can be accepted by the website owners for issues or problems that occur as a consequence of using the website content. If you have any concerns about your psychological health you are advised to contact a doctor other suitably qualified medical/psychiatric practioner.

© P.J.Granger 2007

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