Understanding the Psychology of Vision Model and using it to improve your relationship
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The things you need to know
about men, love and relationships.
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These tips will help you to build and sustain a loving relationship with your partner. Give the tips a try - if you can follow them through, your will find that you become closer and feel more connected to your partner. These are the key principles we use on our workshops to help people with their relationships.
1. Relationship difficulties may be painful but they represent the best chance you and your partner have to heal your insecurities and build a better relationship - try to see relationship problems as opportunities for self development.
2. Whenever you feel emotional pain in a relationship, resist the temptation to move away from your partner. This is the very time you need each other. Take courage and move through your pain towards their's.
3. Communication about feelings and fears is what heals relationships. Always make this your objective. Try to find out what your partner is feeling. Expressing your own feelings with honesty and sensitivity will encourage your partner to do the same. Remember even bad behaviour is a form of communication!
4. Nobody can make you feeling anything that you are not already feeling subconsciously. It is hidden and unhealed emotional pain that is triggered by the challenges of a relationship. Be willing to gain emotional awareness, take responsibility and heal these insecurities.
5. Appreciate your partner for all their strengths and gifts - tell them and show them how much you love them. Don't forget the romance.
6. If you feel let down by your partner or feel that they are not giving you something important in the relationship, give them exactly the thing you are lacking. Almost magically they will then give you the same thing back!
7. Sex can be a beautiful celebration of love in a relationship- this is why it is called making love! The more emotionally connected you are, the better will be your sex life. Applying these ten tips will certainly help.
8. If you have had a row, say sorry for any of your own bad behaviour and recognise that your partner will also be feeling bad. Move towards them, forgive and re-connect as soon as you can.
9. If you are having really big problems in your relationship and you believe in a higher or spiritual power, then ask for help. In this way you will find the inspiration to work through the most tragic or painful situations.
10. Make time and space for each other. Relax, smile laugh and have fun. Relationships are our best chance of find meaning, joy and fulfilment in life!
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