Understanding Love and Emotions

The old way of thinking about love...

Most of us have a sense that we lack love and must therefore bring it into our lives. This assumption has created an outward search for love that damages our relationships and causes emotional suffering. This is at the heart of all our relationship problems.

Here's a different way...

Love is not a transient emotion or something that we lack and have to bring into
our lives - it is an intrinsic and unchanging part of us. It is our essence.

This new definition has some startling implications:

- If our essence is love, then we must have it in limitless supply.

- We no longer need to search for love because we already have it.

- Although we may stop feeling love, we cannot lose it.

- Our experience of love is not determined by the amount of love we bring into our lives, but by the amount of love that we allow ourselves to feel.

- The quality of our relationships will depend on how much love we are willing give to people and receive in return.

These are challenging ideas. If it is true that our essence is one of love and we have it in abundant supply, then the first and most obvious question we will ask is: “Why don’t we experience love and happiness more often in our lives”? The truth is that we could do so, but instead we place a number of conditions on whether or not we access our loving essence. In holding back the love, we erect barriers and create smokescreens that hide us and other people from our true identity and potential for good relationships. Most of us are largely unaware that we do these things. To learn more about why we do this, see - The Triangle Model in a Nutshell

The astonishing truth is that we are hiding from our loving essence and this is damaging our relationships and robbing us of happiness

We will help you understand:

>> How and why you may have inadvertently erected barriers to love

>> The impact of these barriers on your personality and relationships

>> How you can remove the barriers and reveal your true capacity for love

>> How you can help your partner, family, friends and even colleagues to embrace more love and happiness in their lives

>> The secrets of connected, communicative, sustained partnerships where there is great love and a sense of cooperation, understanding and support

>> How to find more meaning and purpose in your life

Here are some ways for you to start your process of re-discovery:

Take a look at our relationship model - click to find a brief explanation

Understanding and solving specific relationship problems and issues

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The old way of thinking about love... Most of us have a sense that we lack love and must therefore bring it into our lives. This assumption has created an outward search for love that damages our relationships and causes emotional suffering. This is at the heart of all our relationship problems.

The old way of thinking about love...

Most of us have a sense that we lack love and must therefore bring it into our lives. This assumption has created an outward search for love that damages our relationships and causes emotional suffering. This is at the heart of all our relationship problems.